Oh! Stop Being Overly Respectful Blogger!

October 29, 2009 by Chris  
Filed under Blogging

The secret to ever lasting successful blog is to be BOLD, just hear it for now what I say and I will explain you later, why? In this overly congested blogging industry there are millions of bloggers worldwide each out doing the other one, why does one successful blogger stands at the top alone from the crowd, is it the content he writes? Or perhaps the traffic he is bringing to the site? No, may be because of the advertisements he gets? There are so many possibilities but what reason stands at the top is one characteristic that makes your blog so powerful, is it our very own BOLD character we are talking about? Well, I would say it’s true to the extent you guys understand what I am trying to portray here.

I have come across so many blogs and blogging networks and read few profiles of the blogger as to how they started off, and what is their secret to success, etc. I found out there is a particular way that impacts the reader and especially when you talk boldly it has deeper impact. The worst problem with bloggers today is that they are overly cautious about their dignity, respect and the content they write for their readers. Doesn’t it feel too artificial sometimes, the majority of you might agree to me with this fact on my hands, isn’t it?  I just want to ask a simple question to these bloggers, why can’t they be just normal, in real life, no one is smooth, calm, non-aggressive person as they portray themselves on the blogs network. Every coin has 2 sides, and so does the human nature, one is the professional nature and one is emotional character at home.

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The bloggers today use various modes to get interaction going with their readers, advertisers and their investors – some might ask interactive questions in the blog and some might ask for comments or suggestions. The present generation people are too smart; wont they make out the artificial talks if someone tries to be overly friendly with them to gain something instead why not be straight forward and show them what the real person you are. That will, I guess bring them closer to you and as they will discover that connection with you, your blog will automatically be popular. People always find emotional connection with the blogger if they can connect to you as a person and not as a blogger.

I want to be very clear of what I want to tell my readers, be bold in your writings and let them hear what is unexpected this way people would get more attracted towards your blog, uncommon brings you more cheers and happiness and that stands true to blogging industry. Some bloggers waste a lots of time in collecting the words that wouldn’t offend any readers, but what’s the point, instead why cant they be straight and bold and speak what’s there in their minds, after all, blogs are all about talks – what’s in and what’s out.

Even if you are bold in your talks, you can persuade your audience and make them agree to what you have to say. Willingness doesn’t just come by talking sweet but talking the truth, so be honest and give a damn to what they think and write boldly being wonderfully creative.